Tuesday, February 09, 2010

A Smart Woman

Quite frankly, I don't think she's ditzy. I think she's actually very smart.

It's no secret.
Men love dumb women.
Well, not dumb per se.
They like women who are... Well, just smart enough to understand what they're talking about.
They'd probably find a woman with a PhD a turn off.
At least, that's the stereotype.
But it's true in some areas.
I mean, most guys I know wouldn't date a girl with a high IQ.
Most, not all. I'm not saying some guys won't find smart girls attractive.
It's the male ego thing.


"She must be smart, but not as smart as me. Can understand what I'm saying can already."
Quote from a friend.

I didn't know intelligence can be measured in that sense.

But evidently, it works.
Which is why I think people like Paris Hilton are really smart.
I mean, sure, she gets criticized by the media, branded as the air-head heiress, but have you noticed how many guys are after her?
And how much she is getting paid FOR being ditzy?
She's gaining so much from her ditziness I tell you.
It really doesn't matter how people look at her.
She's still gaining.
There has to be a reason to why she keeps putting on the airhead heiress act.
Though I guess she IS slightly better now....
Still. Very smart.

Kay, I'm straying from the topic.

But I do find the particular fact that men (MOST) don't really like smart women.
As in women smarter than themselves.
Unless of course, she's hot.
Then it'd be a completely different thing.
Don't deny it guys.
Imagine yourself on a date with a girl, who happens to be a PhD, who works as a rocket scientist at NASA.
And you are... Let's say a store clerk with no diploma.
Heck, you barely managed to finish high school.

So you're on this date.
And you're trying to get to know each other.
Let's say you wanna impress her.
You'd probably have to scale all over google to actually find topics that are relevant to her.
Let's say you manage to do that.
Let's imagine you're rajin enough to do that.
IF she produces an argument on the particular subject that you're using to try to impress her.
You'd be so screwed.

Most guys I know probably wouldn't go to such lengths to impress a girl.
Well, if they do she must be someone really amazing.
They'd probably back away from the girl.
So ladies, if you wish to get rid of that one guy who keeps bugging you day and night,
and won't take no for an answer,
just act like you have the intelligence equivalent to Einstein's.
Confirm he'll never bug you again.

10 comments:

Anonymous said...

aiyah, study harder ni la ah gurl lols. so the trick is to keep on studying harder and smarter for all guys, to widen the scope of your choice.

well, i've to agree that men [generally] feel threaten when a gurl is much smarter. but im sure a gurl doesn't want to find a guy that is more stupid than her either. hahaha.

well, sometimes i feel that hi iq gurls are interesting LOL bcz they're kinda rare.. oh yea, u've gotta admit that xD

Eileen said...

lol monde. tell that to all guys you know. heyyy... there are tons of girls with high IQs.

Anonymous said...

they are just peanuts compared to the gurls with high iq LOL so sexist right me.. but its the truth.

intro u this book, Why Men Don't Listen and Women Can't Read Maps by Barbara and Allan Pease. Hahahaha.

Eileen said...

omg you.. so sexist. -.-
yes i've heard of it. havent got the chance to get it tho.

Anonymous said...

okay.. i believe if i were to use another word other than peanuts i wouldnt be called sexist hahaha.

tell me, how many mathematicians in the world are women? or, how many inventions are from women? Best chef, man. Best clothes designer, men. Okay, the chef and designer part is objective.

I'm not saying women can't do what men can.. just that it's a small number. haha.

and of cuz, surely there are men who are equally as bad as... urm.. i mean there are men who are worse than women. LOL Okay, this last paragraph is sexist too lols. But not all the above ahhh lols

Eileen said...

yala yala. lol. you win. :P

Enxhious said...

eileen, I actually agree with you on this. Men are usually intimidated with women who are smarter, or even if she talks too much on topics that only men talk about (sex, and other supposedly 'taboo' topics). I plan to blog about something that is related to this topic, will credit you in my post, hope you don't mind =D

Eileen said...

haha... that is so true. men don't like girls who are overly guy-ish either. nope I don't mind. go right ahead. :)

Anonymous said...

ohyea. guys dont like gurls to be guyish lols. the more quiet, the more sweet, the more feminine, the merrier LOL

Eileen said...

yeah. all things cute and cuddly. frilly frily lacey lacey. ick.

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